The ability to take care of yourself

You can spot toxic places and people. Sometimes, the wrong things attract us. We feel drawn to them because we have something left to learn. But I can now spot the dramas before im a part of them, and I have learned to stay away. I can see how it would harm me to approach these people and places.

Even then, I'm not sure if I've really understood and learned how to take care of myself. My roots are weak. I need to dance more often and reconnect. I also need to realign slightly more with my goals.

I've met a prospective groom online who is so clingy and presumptious that I should just say no. But I'm waiting for this person to take the compatibility test until I say no. Maybe I should just talk to him about it and be honest. Of course, he will deny it, and he will try and convince me that we should just marry. Zamn clingy people! And he has no clue who I am. Doesn't even care to get to know me better. All he is enamored by is my face! He has a boring monotonous voice. And he's not the one for me - i knew it when i saw the picture. The only reason I decided to talk to him is that I was hoping he'd be otherwise. Hes not. He apologized to me for not being renounced enough. That was what helped me take the final call.