who do you call?

When the inevitable moment of disaster arrives, who will I ask for shelter? Who will misguide me? Will I choose correctly? I'm seeing so many horrible suggestions. Jump off the balcony. Leave home and run away. Be selfish, get your liberation worked out and ignore the time wasters. Get out of this sick family game. Stop letting others exploit you. He might be a pedophile. He may go bankrupt. He might be unjust. You might lose your legs. You might have to join the church. You can prevent nasty outcomes if you surrender. Don't just live to eat. He's miserly. He's a materialist. He's a workaholic. He wants to maintain the status quo. He has no interest in spiritual life because he thinks he's doing enough. He  defends his bad decisions so if he's bankrupt he still won't admit that he screwed up. He's being dictated. He's just a pawn on Maya's chessboard.