austerities of heart

To prevent hard heartedness from tapasya, one must perform tapasya of the heart and be more forgiving.

1. See future of all souls as Krsna Das and overlook present state of sin

2. Forgive those who hurt you in any  way

3. Control urge to be angry and beat up or chastise others. Practice forgiveness.

4. Remember to reject only that which absolutely cannot be used  to bring others and yourself closer to Krishna.