the problem

The problem is that i see nothing wrong with chocolates and sense gratification esp through the tongue.

I think it's okay to indulge once in a while.

I keep forgetting that more  sugar means more hunger cravings and lust

Plus, it doesn't help when prabhupada says we should eat prasada to the neck

Nor does it help that sugar is a bona fide offering. The basic element of food as such. But only an excess of it leads to problems. And addiction. Heart hardening. And bad behaviour.